Getting Women is Not What You Do, But Who You Are: Being, Not Doing

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Being, Not Doing is a self-development manual of inner game concepts which will take your interactions with women to the next level using a mix of eastern philosophy, presence, and unplugging from social programming.

Most people are too caught up in the doing, not only in interacting with women, but in life in general. Pick up companies obsess on what to say and what to do. In truth, almost anything you say or do works as long as you believe in it. The hard part is actually believing in it in a world where we're taught to second guess everything, especially yourself.
Whereas routines are used to imitate the confidence of someone who's natural with women, this manual cuts to the core of being, helping you become that guy that women are desperately looking for.
It's not what's being said, it's who's saying it.
Where outer game is trying to become a better salesman, inner game is focused on improving the product- yourself. If you have a product that everybody wants, you hardly need to be a salesman.
When people focus solely on outer game- a common mistake most newbies make- they become that annoying used car salesman trying to trick people into buying a lemon. They may make some sales here and there, but it's mostly due to luck.
Practicing inner game, you're not dependent on the result. There is plenty of demand for someone who is high value- and this manual is about being that high value guy instead of a snake oil salesman with a bunch of tricks and routines up his sleeve.
Where outer game improves your interactions with women, inner game improves your life, which will greatly increase your results with women. It's more substantial and all around beneficial- not just for meeting women.
Having a loser lifestyle and trying to meet women in your spare time is not an attractive lifestyle.
If the time spent learning routines was instead spent developing the self, you could become the kind of guy that you're pretending to be.

Quit putting on an act, both in meeting women and being who you want to be.