🤍 MIŁOŚĆ UNF*CKED 🤍„𝒫𝑜𝓀𝑜𝒸𝒽𝒶𝒿 𝓈𝓌𝑜𝒿𝑒 𝓅𝓇𝓏𝑒𝓈𝓏𝓀𝑜𝒹𝓎”Jeżeli ktoś zna pióro Gary’ego Bishopa, wie czego może spodziewać się po książkach tego autora. Powinien być gotowy na porcję soczystych słów, bez owijania w bawełnę.W tej książce autor pokazuje nam swoją perspektywę patrzenia na związki. Opiera swoją teorie na tym, że cały związek opiera się tak naprawdę tylko i wyłącznie na Tobie i nie tyczy się to tylko związków romantycznych. Perspektywa, uczucia, zaangażowanie, to tylko i wyłącznie Ty. Wszystko

Follow your values, fix yourself I need to pay attention and reread this

Interesting insight in relationships, how the can end, deal breakers and many other aspects.

the morale of this book is.. You don’t know shit about having an authentically great relationship.I think the book is good just not as good as his normal books

Another fantastic listen by Gary John Bishop. If you aren’t ready to hear some absolute hard to hear truth, get ready, because he lays it on! His perspective is always so unique to the reader/listener, and often it takes a solid two reads for it to really stick. But his words have changed my outlook for the better and I think that’s all that matters.

Bishop's tough love approach really hammered in the understanding that you can't blame everyone else for the faults in your life and character; you have to take accountability for your own emotions. So while I did appreciate the chapter on how to recover from breakups (I think I need more tough love in my life) I will be recommending this novel to my mother. Bishop restates the same points in different ways in a rambling sort of fashion, so hopefully this will be able to get through to her.

While the core concepts behind this book had value, Gary spent the first 50 pages or so repeatedly telling you that the key to a successful relationship had to do with you/self work, not trying to change your partner. The most valuable nugget was the idea that there are 3 parties to every couple: you, your partner, and the relationship. And when you serve you are serving the relationship, not your partner. This helps remove the temptation to keep score of who does what.

Ocena: 2+Wrażenia: Kołczowe pierdololo, które kreuje się na „nie jestem kołczowym pierdololo”. Plusik za to, że nie podtrzymuje toksycznych mitów, mówi wprost że jeśli doświadczasz przemocy - zabieraj rzeczy i uciekaj, a jeśli chcesz kogoś zmienić, to sam się zmień, a nie zwalaj odpowiedzialności za związek na partnera. Dla kogo: Terapii to nie zastąpi, spieprzonego związku pewnie nie naprawi, ale przejrzeć można, bo nie zawiera szkodliwych porad.

There were a few interesting and valuable pieces of information in this book. However there were a few places especially in the beginning of the book where the information was repetitive. It took me a while to finish this book because of the first part of the book.*Thank you Netgalley for providing an arc in exchange for an honest review.*

Przyznam, że gdyby tę książkę napisał ktoś inny, to nie zwróciłabym na nią uwagi. Jednak to Gary Bishop, którego cenię za poprzednie jego książki. Za kubeł zimnej wody, za dosadność i bezceremonialność, która postawiła mnie do pionu w kilku kwestiach. Tym razem Bishop bierze na tapet relacje, dlaczego nie funkcjonują tak jak w filmach, dlaczego miłość nie ma nic wspólnego ze schematami, dlaczego przyzwyczajenia robią więcej szkody niż pożytku. Kieruje swoją książkę głównie do osób w związkach, l...

I've read Gary's other books and it has helped me start unf****** my life. I didn't think this one applied to me because I have a great marriage even though we have issues like everyone else. However, there were some nuggets of truth that has made me question, how great is it really? I loved how he forced me to search for the problems we have not at her, but inside myself. I particularly loved the managing myself chapter and the sections about honor. Thank you Gary for your continued insights in...

10 / 10 HIGHLY RECOMMEND. I can see myself re-reading this one multiple times. Truth be told, I am single so not in the midst of a lot of the issues facing many couples. But I definitely learned so many things to bring to and also leave out of any future relationships. His delivery (audiobook) is incredible you can feel his passion.

I enjoyed the messages about only changing yourself to get the love you want and deserve. I found many of the exercises about self refection useful. While all the information could be true and helpful, however I found myself tuning out the author yelling and cussing at me like a teenage tunes out her father's voice when he yells continuously.

It's not a book that's real deep in data or science but it is motivational. It motivates personal accountability in a real life awareness way. Listen to or read the book. It's fast and well worth the time.

Definitely some aha moments and all too familiar scenarios. I hope I'm not rereading this in ten years.

More no-nonsense advice from the no b.s. advice guru.

If you know Gary then you know what to expect and this is my favorite book of his since Unfuck Yourself. If you don't know him, only pick this up if you can handle cuss words, want the straight truth, and are able to look at yourself critically. You will be hurt by this book, it will piss you off, but most importantly it will help you realize that most likely the biggest problem in your relationship (any relationship) is YOU.

First of all, the audiobook version of this is fantastic! The author has a great accent and brings the text to life (it feels more like a dialog than a passive listening experience). The author continuously comes back to the fact that we are in complete control of ourselves and nothing else; that is we seek a healthy relationship, we have to work on ourselves first, something I learned the hard way not that long ago.

Not that bad but not as good as the rest of his books,I already know all the points he talked about so i lost interest real quick ,a sentence here and there might have had tickled my brain but in all didn’t felt like it was good addition to me for knowledge .

I am a huge fan. The book, the author and in the end love yourself, and love whole heart the one you love